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Sometimes people think anger is beneath them. Not because they've transcended it, but because they've learnt to see it as something crude, uncontrolled, belonging to people who can't manage themselves properly. If you grew up watching anger used as a weapon - shouting, abusive words, emotional explosions - you might have decided early on that you'd never be that person. You'd be better. More controlled. Above it. But anger doesn't disappear because you've decided it's beneath

You might wonder how some people don't dwell on difficult emotions and seem to move on easily. It can feel like they’re choosing not to feel certain things. The truth is, no one gets to choose their emotions, but some people have learned how to understand their feelings and use them as signposts. They feel contentment and act from it. They feel sadness and allow it to be there. They feel anger and can respond to it without getting stuck in it. So, the point isn’t about choosi